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Dr. Taylor Burrowes
The Vetting & Compatibility Specialist™
Creator of The Vetting System™️ and The Ideal Match Method™️

Marriage doesn’t fail because people don’t care, it fails because they choose without clarity.

Let’s be honest, attraction is easy, but discernment is not. In order to develop the good judgement needed you have to calibrate yourself to be in alignment first. This is where my work shines.

I help men and women develop the emotional health, self-knowledge, relationship readiness and vetting skills required to choose a spouse wisely and build a secure, aligned, resilient marriage before problems take root.

The goal is clarity before commitment, not repair after the fact.

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WHO I WORK WITH

I work with men and women who fall into one (or more) of these categories:

  • Singles seeking a serious, intentional relationship leading to marriage, often post breakup wanting to reset to a high integrity, highly compatible marriage-minded relationship.
  • Individuals at a crossroads in an unclear or troubled relationship (“Should I stay or go?”)
  • Couples in conflict, misalignment, or repair mode
  • High-functioning personal growth seekers who want to self-actualize, strengthen emotional health, and live with integrity—whether currently dating or not

I often work with thoughtful, emotionally intelligent women who’ve already done the brave thing. They’ve stopped chasing potential, stopped tolerating ambiguity, or staying in connections that couldn’t carry marriage or family.

These women aren’t naïve about love or confused about attraction… they’re discerning. They care about character, consistency, emotional safety and shared direction. She doesn’t want to spiral, over function, or second guess herself into another almost relationship. 

These women often opt in to text coaching as it’s a grounded, real time container for emotional regulation, clarity and self trust… so she can finally exhale into a relationship built to last.

I also often work with conscientious, capable men who’ve already done the hard thing. They ended a relationship that didn’t meet their standards for marriage, family and long-term stability. These men aren’t confused about attraction… They’re serious about character, alignment and legacy. 

The Ideal Match Program™ exists for the man who doesn’t want to rebound, drift, or repeat the same mistake with a different woman. It’s a structured reset for discernment, leadership and self trust… so the next relationship isn’t another lesson learned for him either. He wants to get it right, once and for all.

WHAT THIS WORK GIVES YOU

Through coaching, mentorship and community, I help you develop:

  • Radical self-awareness, alignment and integration
  • Clear understanding of your needs, values, limits and desires
  • Emotional regulation, communication and conflict-repair mastery
  • High-level vetting skills for compatibility, polarity and long-term alignment
  • Confidence, peace and discernment in relational decision-making

WHO THIS IS FOR

This work is ideal for you if you are:

  • Marriage-minded and done with casual, aimless dating
  • Self-aware, accountable and growth-oriented, willing to do inner and outer work
  • Emotionally stable and capable of high-level coaching engagement
  • Values-driven and High-integrity (often conservative, traditional, faith based or purpose-led)
  • Coach­able, open to challenge, feedback, and structure
  • Decisive and ready to embrace change and take action, not fickle about the process. 

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

This work is not a fit if you are:

  • Seeking casual dating, poly/open arrangements, or short-term pleasure
  • In active emotional or mental-health crisis requiring therapeutic care
  • Unwilling to take responsibility for your own patterns
  • More invested in blaming others than building character, integrity and insight
  • Resistant to structure, accountability, or direct feedback
  • Looking for quick hacks, emotional dumbing/complaining, or hand-holding without taking action and trying to find solutions

HOW I WORK WITH CLIENTS

1) Remote Coaching on Telegram Messenger App (“Text Coaching”)

A high-touch, private coaching container delivered via text and voice notes.

Ideal if you want:

  • Real-time emotional processing and pattern recognition
  • Expert reflection, discovery and edification without Zoom calls
  • Continuous momentum and grounded decision-making
  • $425 per week, $1500 per month (monthly is invite only)

Text coaching is structured, scheduled and limited each week.

2) Private Mentoring & Matching Community

A high-integrity, subscription-based mentorship environment for men, women, singles, and couples who want structure, clarity and ethical guidance in their relational lives. This community provides ongoing access to my frameworks, discernment tools, and mentoring—along with curated matching opportunities inside a vetted, marriage-minded ecosystem.

Members receive:

  • Monthly live workshops and guided mentoring sessions
  • Group discussion, support, and micro-coaching for real-world application
  • Access to intentional matching within a values-aligned community
  • Exclusive discounts on select products and services
  • $19.99/month

Available via Instagram subscription.

3) Urgent Consultation

A premium, high-priority session for time-sensitive relational or life decisions. Reserved for exceptional circumstances.

This option is designed for moments when clarity is required quickly and the cost of delay is high.

Ideal for situations such as:

  • Navigating a major relationship decision (stay / go / propose / disclose / relocate)
  • Acute conflict, rupture, or emotionally charged crossroads
  • Vetting a critical opportunity, commitment, or next step
  • Regaining composure, perspective, and grounded decision-making under pressure
  • Situations where you need direct, high-level guidance rather than ongoing coaching

Important notes:

  • This is not therapy, crisis counseling, or emergency mental health care
  • Not intended for long-term pattern work or ongoing coaching support
  • Availability is limited and offered at my discretion

Session Details:

  • 90 minutes | $1,000

4) The Ideal Match Program™️ Intake and 8-Week Intensive Coaching 

My highest-level container.

This is a deep, focused 1:1 coaching experience designed to:

  • Clarify your Ideal Match for marriage
  • Resolve relational blind spots and internal conflicts
  • Develop leadership, discernment and emotional mastery
  • Create aligned momentum toward marriage and family
  • Clarify your Alignment Map, Compatibility Profile and customized Vetting Filter. 
  • $200 for a 30 min intake (acts as credit for a 30 min follow up coaching call at the completion of the program)
  • $4,250 for the 8-week container (once a week 90 min calls)
  • $3,000 for the 8-week program delivered remotely on Telegram Messenger (8 consecutive weeks during office hours)

This container is by application only and begins with an evaluative call. 

Or click here to Learn More about the program. 

You may be a good fit for this option if:

✅ You’re ready to invest time, money and energy into finally getting this part of your life right

✅ You’re coachable, open to feedback and willing to do things differently, even if it feels uncomfortable

✅ You’re ready to take aligned action, not just talk about change, but live it

✅ You can commit to 2 months of deep coaching (weekly 1:1 calls plus accountability check-ins and homework every week)

✅ You’re serious about your future and done wasting time on the wrong people, patterns, or distractions

If that’s you, you’ll thrive in this container!

If none of these options are amenable to you, you can access my (free and paid options) resource library. Including downloadable tools, lead magnets and educational guides to accelerate self-awareness, vetting and relationship intelligence at your own pace.

WHERE TO START

Please note: I do not offer free consultations. All sessions and placements are structured and application-based.

Step 1: Complete the Application

All coaching, community placement and matching begin with the application.

Step 2: Message Me on Telegram

After submitting your application, message me directly on Telegram to confirm completion and begin placement. If you reach out before applying, you will be asked to complete the application first.

Step 3: Placement & Next Steps

If aligned, you’ll be guided into:

IMPORTANT NOTES

  • My work is coaching, education, structured mentorship and matchmaking — not therapy or clinical care.
  • I am a retired licensed mental health professional and no longer provide therapy, diagnosis, or treatment.
  • Coaching does not replace medical, psychological, or psychiatric care when those are needed.
  • Engaging with my services, content, or community — paid or unpaid — is governed by my Terms of Service.
  • All paid coaching and matching services are subject to my Confidentiality & Policy Agreement.
  • Access to group spaces requires review and acknowledgment of Community Guidelines.

Client testimonials can be reviewed here.

ABOUT DR. TAYLOR BURROWES

I’m a former licensed mental health counselor/marriage and family therapist with a PhD in Marriage, Couples & Family Counseling (Barry University, 2014), now working as a coach, consultant and matchmaker.

I created The Vetting System™ and The Ideal Match Method™ to help men and women become relationship ready, vet wisely and build robust marriages grounded in compatibility, polarity, emotional health and shared values.

If you’re serious about doing this once and doing it right…

Start with the application.
Then we connect, vet and clarity follows.

Warmly,
Taylor

Dr. Taylor Burrowes | The Vetting & Compatibility Specialist™️